For a lady to find a good man she must first understand the basic qualities that makes a man married to material. First of all this man must have a very nurturing personality meeting that he is always there for you and wants to help you grow as a person regardless of his own wants and needs. Second of all he must be a very unselfish person that is capable of giving not only in a relationship but also a friendship and to complete strangers. Third he must have a strong faith based system whether it is believe in family, helping your fellow man or a strong faith in God. Where are some places that large groups of men like this reside?

There are basically two places where you could find many men like this at and one of them is that charity groups and the other is that churches. Charity groups are great because you basically have to be a very unselfish person to be helping other people and not getting paid for it. Most women like to meet men at nightclubs and bars but the man that will be there for the long haul is the one you’ll be meeting during a charity event. The reason churches are a great place to meet quality men is that men that go to church have been brought up in a very strong family unit that believes in God and the bond that a man and wife have for each other.

At some time into the start of a romance, you will be holding each others gaze for longer and longer periods before looking away. Girls are likely to use what are called ‘doe eyes’ or ‘bedroom eyes’, making their eyes wider. This transfers a state of vulnerability and also is a signal of submission. Wide baby eyes are nature’s way of asking for protection, you can observe them in many species all over the world.Watch what is being looked at. She looks at your lips, she wants to kiss. She looks at another part of your body means “I want to touch”.

Most likely this is accompanied by the pupils getting bigger by dilating. This is a very subtle signal that might be hard to catch in a dark
environment. But, it goes to show why lots of times dark eyed people are considered very attractive.

Leaning In

When someone leans his body towards you while in a conversation, it shows genuine interest. It also says “I would like to be closer to you”. At the same time it’s a good test to check the weather. If you enter someone’s private sphere by leaning toward him or her and your opposite doesn’t back off, that’s a good sign. Leaning can be a small sign, with just the head tilting ever so slightly or with the entire upper body.

But there is a limit, too. The closer you get to a person, the more intimate your body language will get. You will have to watch very closely how close you can get without the other person signals: Enough!

Because by moving too close to the other person, you enter into their personal body space. This clearly suggests that you would rather get even closer, like holding them in your arms or even more.

Along with that goes the way someone positions himself in front of your. By standing square-on to the women of your dreams you are
automatically blocking anyone else from joining the conversation. The signal to others is clear: Stay away.

Copying the image

What we often observe is imitating a person in some way. This shows “I am like you” or “I would like to be like you and be accepted”. The leader of a gang of youths slouches at a table and his peers will do so, too. The kids will use the same slang, gestures and dress code.

The Touch

A lot easier to observe and to notice is touching. This might start with ‘accidental’ brushing, soon to be followed by touching of ‘safe’ parts of the body such as arms, hands or back.

Take advantage and be careful!

If you take the time and look around in a bar or somewhere else where people meet, you are likely to observe lots of clear body language signals, non verbal communications that now make sense. Being able to read certain gestures and behaviours will give you an advantage while flirting. It is also a good idea to be informed about these things when you are about to enter a job interview, for instance.

You will detect motives and intentions behind these little things. But, you need to be careful. Body language is different from person to person.

There are patterns all right, but you are well advised not to jump to conclusions to fast. Just because “She” looks at you longer than a second does not automatically mean she’s yours for the night. It can just as well be because she can’t believe you chose this ridiculous tie with your denim shirt!

The real purpose of a romance novel is to provide an escape for the reader from their reality. The person can temporarily ignore their responsibilities and transport themselves into the novel, pretending to be the damsel in distress. They read through the trials and tribulations in book relating to them and anxiously wait for their Prince Charming to come and rescue them. And, to take them away from all their troubles and woos to the place where they will live happily ever after.

The ability to have to live out this fantasy is a way for some people to find a release from their daily grind and the romance novel is one of the best sellers in the market place. They are sold in every grocery, drug, and discount retail establishments around the country. You can even join any number of different books clubs and you will automatically receive the latest new novels each month. You do not have to go out and buy them-they just keep coming until you tell them to stop your membership.

Women hate to admit that they enjoy these romance novels, but there is nothing to be embarrassed about. With over 50 million of them sold every year, someone out there is reading them! True love and romance are a part of our lives and we enjoy knowing that someone out there is experiencing love and romance. Whether you fill the bath tub with bubble bath, lounge by the pool, or sit in your car waiting for the children to come out of school, take a romance novel with you. You will enjoy the story and it will help pass the time. You deserve to take a few minutes from your full schedule to fantasize and lose yourself in a good romance novel.

Words and music are said to excite and turn on women more so than visuals. Explicit romantic erotica aimed at women can not, and should not be considered pornography. Women do not like to admit that they enjoy romance novels, but studies have determined that there is nothing to be embarrassed about. In fact, romance novels have increasingly found their way into women’s studies and literature classes at various universities.

A romance novel can be filled with hot and steamy scenes or gentle persuasions that cause readers to fall in love with heroes while the heroine stumbles around, blind as a bat, to all his good qualities. On the other hand, many a novel heroine waits impatiently for the hero to get it through his thick, stubborn head that she loves him.

Wrong!!!

Guess what. Being romantic and intimate with your significant other doesn’t require massive amounts of time. Hey, truth be told, it doesn’t even require a whole lot of thought or planning. With only a little bit of effort and desire, you can give your love life a big, pleasurable boost. How little an effort? Well, if you can spare at least 2 measly hours a week, your can go from zero to sixty just like that! It’s true. Check out these 5 quick tips to learn how.

5 Quick Steps to Romance:

Before you start, please note the following: All list time frames can be adjusted to suit.

Day 1.) Wednesday

Activity: My Treat Night

Time Frame: 15 Minutes

The schedule begins on Wednesday night (just a suggestion) because for most couples/parents, Monday and Tuesday are notoriously hectic. As the week progresses, things tend to settle down for most of us.

While family dinners do help us stay connected (if we have children), adult need together time just as much! Also, the 15 minutes listed for this exercise is an approximation for the ordering time, not eating time.

Since we all generally eat dinner anyway, doing so with your loved one should not stretch your schedule too much.

Suggestions:

• Take turns. If he picks up dinner the first time, she should the next.

• Keep it within budget. You don’t have to break the bank.

• Be creative. While you may love Chinese, must you always choose Chinese? • Be open-minded. Maybe you won’t like sushi the first time (or any time at all). Still, can you really be sure if you never try it. Rejecting your spouse’s selections out of hand without foreknowledge can be as insulting as not giving him or her a choice to begin with.

Day 2.): Thursday

Activity: “Movie”/ “Play” Night

Time Frame: 30 Minutes

Okay, we know you’re not going to watch a typical movie in 30 minutes. This activity is named movie because those of you lucky enough to have the time, could in fact go this route. However, with the proposed time frame in mind, you should concentrate instead on sitcoms, books, games, the news, etc. We’re going for variety here.

Suggestions:

• Go outside of the box. Pick something new and different. You could choose to watch a new show, to read a new book or a section of the newspaper to each other, to discuss current events, to solve a jigsaw puzzle, etc.

• The fresher the idea, the more intriguing it will be.

• Expand yourselves. You can both learn more about yourselves and each other if you do.

Day 3.): Friday

Activity: Gift Exchanges

Time Frame: 15 Minutes

Who doesn’t have to go to some sort of department store, grocery store, restaurant, gift shop, etc. during the course of a the work week? Not to mention the amount of time we all spend on-line. It’s not necessary for anyone to spend two hours at the mall agonizing over a gift. Let’s aim for fun, amusing, cute, cuddly, sexy…you get the drift. Everyone likes to be on the receiving end of gift giving. For most people, it is the thought that counts.

Suggestions:

• If by chance you aren’t out and about, do a little online shopping. It’s not time consuming, the choices are endless, and you could actually buy a few things ahead of time to have on hand for the appropriate moment.

Day 4.): Saturday

Activity: Bath Time

Time Frame: 30 Minutes

Take turns and do it together. What can be more comforting and sexy as washing each other’s backs and…other parts?

Day 5.): Sunday

Activity: Kissing & Touching

Time Frame: 30 Minutes

At week’s end, a little affirmation can go a long way. Whether you’re curled up together, watching the game or a movie, snuggled up in bed, or stealing time after church/before dinner. Nothing is more intimate, more emotional, or more soothing to both partners than this…well, almost nothing.

Go ahead. For the next couple weeks try making the time to love by using these suggestions. As long as you both keep each other in mind, the romance will come as easily as breathing. Good luck to you both.