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5 Biggest Mistakes That Make Men Fail With Women

Tuesday, November 20th, 2007

About every man wanted to be more successful dealing with woman. But most of the men, when it comes to woman, they probably make some mistakes that make them fail. There are five big common mistakes that most man do and make them fail with woman. Here are the five mistakes and how to avoid it:

The first mistake is being too much of a nice guy. Have you ever noticed that the really attractive women never seem to be attracted “”nice”" guys? Here is the reason; Women don’t base their choices of men on how “”nice”" a guy is. They choose a man because they feel a powerful gut level attraction for them. Being nice guy doesn’t make a woman feel that powerful attraction. And if you don’t have a powerful attraction, woman won’t choose you.

The second mistake is trying to convince her to like you. When a guy meets a woman that they really like (but she’s just not interested) most guys try to “”convince”" the woman to feel differently. But here is the fact “”You will never change how a woman feels when it comes to attraction!”" Never. Sometimes, when a woman just not interested, we beg, plead, chase, and do our best to change her mind. And guess what? That will never work.

The third mistake is looking to her for approval or permission. In our desire to please women (which we mistakenly think will make them like us), us guys are always doing things to get a woman’s “”approval”" or “”permission”". But here is the fact “”Women are never attracted to the types of men who kiss up to them”". I don’t mean you have to treat women badly for them to like you, but you will never succeed by looking for approval. Women actually get annoyed at men who seek their approval.

The fourth mistake is trying to “”buy”" her affection with food and gifts. When you take a woman out for a nice dinner, bought her gifts and flowers these things, you send a clear message: “”I don’t think you’ll like me for who I am, so I’m going to try to buy your attention and affection”". Your good intentions usually come across to women as over-compensation for insecurity, and weak attempts at manipulation. And woman don’t attracted to a man like this.

The fifth mistake is sharing “”how you feel”" too early in the relationship with her. Attractive women are rare and they get a lot of attention from men. They are being approached in one way or another all the time. And one thing that turns an attractive women off and sends her running away faster than just about anything is a guy who starts saying “”You know, I really, REALLY like you”" after one or two dates. This signals to the woman that you’re just like all the other guys who fall for her too fast and can’t control themselves.